So I love talking to one of my best friends. We talk about anything and everything. I’m not gonna mention her name but she is always complaining to me about problems with men in her life or telling me about a wonderful guy that she is talking that she has known for like ever. So I try to be a good friend and listen to her and be there for her, but I have to admit that sometimes it comes to a point when it starts to get annoying having to hear about all the men in her life. It’s even more annoying when I have to hear about her on again/off again long distance boyfriend is either being good to her or whenever she is having a problem with him. I’m over here just like at least you got men in your life. At least you get men to notice you on a somewhat semi daily basis, whether it be on the street or in the world wide web. Me, not that I mind doing some of the things I do but I have to resort to (somewhat) I guess really out there kind of measures to get any kind of attention from anyone. Some of the attention I get is not always pleasant or enjoyable but its just the point that I have to put more effort into everything I do, just to get any kind of attention from guys. With her its so much easier to get attention cause in general we can argue that for girls to get guys attentions its much easier and she is a pretty girl too. Even on her worst she could still get a guy to turn thier head and look at her. Even on my best day I can still walk buy a guy and not get even a single glance. Sometimes its so frustrating having to listen to her complain about how she sometimes gets attention from guys who she don’t find attractive or are just old and maybe somewhat creepy. Particularly from guys on various dating sites is where I’m coming from for that last particular statement. And I’m just like bitch shut up, at least you getting some attention from someone out there even if its not exactly the kind you want. While me I have to get half naked (not that I really mind lol ;-)) just to get even a wink or a notice that someone has even viewed my profile on whatever dating site I’m using. I don’t know. I pose this question. Am I just being hater and just feeling jealous of her, or are my feelings genuinely valid and it’s OK for me to feel this way?